First off, I amend and congratulate Pat Parelli for all he has accomplished in the natural horsemanship community. He has opened the doors for many people and their horses to learn more about one another and strengthen their bond using simple and gentle methods. He has made it possible for millions of horse owners to learn about natural horsemanship- who other wise never would have known something like it existed. He has done this more so than any other trainer that I can think of. When I was 9 I had my first introduction to natural horsemanship through a trainer and her daughter who practiced Parelli’s method. I still very often use a lot of Parelli’s techniques. He has improved the lives of many horses, which is what we should all strive for. It is amazing.
But…
My issue is not with Parelli’s method per say, but with Parelli himself. Over the years he has become exceedingly, OBSESSED with money. People follow him around like he is something of a god. If he actually wanted to help people and their horses, he wouldn’t charge $190.47 for a rope halter, lead rope and a stick- but wait! If you’re a savvy club member it’s only $142.85! He has become obnoxious, and boastful. A friend let me barrow her success series dvd collection. He advertises himself on every other sentience, saying that the answer is not in this dvd, but another that you can buy off his web site. The man refuses to wear a helmet or support other people to wear a helmet, because he wants to prove to people that he thinks his horse is safe. Does he have any idea how stupid an image that is giving to new riders? If you do Parelli you can’t wear a helmet because everyone knows that anyone who wears a helmet when riding, his horse isn’t safe. Not the case Parelli! Linda Parelli jumps full-sized picnic tables without a helmet on. It’s just ridiculous. I don’t care how good your horse is, anything could happen at any time. They are horses. You shouldn’t forget that. The money and fame has gone to his head. He doesn’t listen any more. He just tells.
The above video is an older one of Parelli, it’s my favorite of his because he seems to care. Now it’s not so much. Now he’s just like everyone else.
If you want to learn natural horsemanship, the Parelli method is a great place to start. It’s been simplified to a T, and I am positive anyone can do it. But don’t waste your money or time on his videos and gadgets- unless you have money to spare. You can get the same quality products for half the price elsewhere. Always be willing to change you approach, don’t stick to just one method. Trial and error is the best way to learn.
